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Poster: micah6vs8 Date: June 26, 2012 12:13:43pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

We do what we can and one of the things I've been asked to do by a fellow forum brother is to relay some tragic news, that maybe a bit too much for him to do right now.

Several days ago Dennis S/O passed away way before her time. Most everyday that Dennis was not trying to make a tuna quota, he was at the hospital. All day long, except for lunch where he had scouted a two block perimeter around the hospital to find the best places to eat. I tried to join him for lunch a few times and then to meet S., but I was unable to make it work and the opportunity passed.

So Dennis is in the Maldives and S.'s funeral is today. That's a tough day in anyone's book. I'm sorry Dennis. I wish this wasn't true. Peace my friend, today and for all of your days.

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Poster: deadhead53 Date: June 27, 2012 09:03:58am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

Dennis my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Be well man

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Poster: Cliff Hucker Date: June 28, 2012 08:12:01am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Thank you again, everyone!

For all the kind thoughts and words!

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Poster: jgIynn1.2 Date: June 28, 2012 10:19:50am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Thank you again, everyone!

Very Sorry to hear the news - you have Nicole and I's condolences.

Hang in there Dennis.

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Poster: jerrys beard Date: June 27, 2012 07:43:55am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

I read, but rarely post...Dennis, it doesn't relieve your pain, but we all share it. Peace and prayers going your way and her family's way.

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Poster: ringolevio Date: June 27, 2012 06:12:16am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

I'm so sorry to hear this, Dennis.

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Poster: AltheaRose Date: June 26, 2012 07:26:52pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

I'm so, so sorry to hear this.

I'm trying to come up with something meaningful to say. I really can't.

Dennis, you know all the Hunter quotes.

Barlow wrote very movingly about the sudden death of his significant other, https://projects.eff.org/~barlow/cynthia.html ,
which I guess has some value as yet more evidence of the universality of experience. But what does that matter? The details are different.

As they always are.

"This happened on December 30, 2003. That may seem like a while ago but it won't when it happens to you.

"And it will happen to you. The details will be different, but it will happen to you. That's what I'm here to tell you."

-- Joan Didion

I read that quote some time ago and it stuck with me, so I'm passing it on. Quite true, of course, for what it's worth.

Insert the whole of Ripple here.



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Poster: Cliff Hucker Date: June 26, 2012 08:14:46pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

Susan and I made our peace well before I left on this trip, and her passing was not unexpected. Still, it's been difficult being so far away at this time. Another chapter of my life has closed.

Thank you for the kind words everyone!

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Poster: rdenirojb87 Date: June 28, 2012 07:30:20am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

Dennis, I'm very sorry to hear about this. I extend my condolences to you, and both of your families. Try and keep your head up.

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Poster: reviewr Date: June 28, 2012 08:03:11pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

Very sad.

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Poster: Skobud Date: June 27, 2012 09:25:50am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

Deepest sympathies Dennis. Im sorry for your loss.

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Poster: Headstrung Date: June 27, 2012 08:04:40am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

I am sorry for your loss and wish you all the best.

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Poster: snow_and_rain Date: June 27, 2012 08:09:47am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

Sorry to hear about it, Dennis. Hope you're doing well.

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Poster: craven714 Date: June 27, 2012 08:12:27am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

peace to you

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Poster: bluedevil Date: June 26, 2012 08:48:48pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

I hope you take great solace in the fact that you two had made your peace. Be well.

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Poster: high flow Date: June 26, 2012 10:32:17pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

This little community of ours is hurting with you Dennis.

You have my family's condolences.

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Poster: clementinescaboose Date: June 28, 2012 01:48:32am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

I am truly sorry for your loss, Dennis; you have my deepest sympathies. Please stay strong.

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Poster: DeadRed1971 Date: June 26, 2012 04:56:55pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

Dennis, I'm truly sorry to hear about your great loss.

Sean, thank you for relaying this to us.

God bless you.

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Poster: RBNW....new and improved! Date: June 26, 2012 06:00:22pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

some things just aint right, so, so, sorry my friend!!!

Lyrics: Robert Hunter
Music: Phil Lesh

Look out of any window
Any morning, any evening, any day
Maybe the sun is shining
Birds are winging, no rain is falling from a heavy sky
What do you want me to do
To do for you to see you through?
For this is all a dream we dreamed one afternoon long ago

Walk out of any doorway
Feel your way like the day before
Maybe you'll find direction
Around some corner where it's been waiting to meet you
What do you want me to do
To watch for you while you're sleeping?
Then please don't be surprised when you find me dreaming too

Look into any eyes
You find by you; you can see clear to another day
Maybe been seen before
Through other eyes on other days while going home
What do you want me to do
To do for you to see you through?
It's all a dream we dreamed one afternoon long ago

Walk into splintered sunlight
Inch your way through dead dreams to another land
Maybe you're tired and broken
Your tongue is twisted with words half spoken and thoughts unclear
What do you want me to do
To do for you, to see you through?
A box of rain will ease the pain and love will see you through

Just a box of rain, wind and water
Believe it if you need it, if you don't just pass it on
Sun and shower, wind and rain
In and out the window like a moth before a flame

And it's just a box of rain, I don't know who put it there
Believe it if you need it or leave it if you dare
And it's just a box of rain, or a ribbon for your hair
Such a long, long time to be gone and a short time to be there

This post was modified by RBNW....new and improved! on 2012-06-27 01:00:22

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Poster: user unknown Date: June 26, 2012 04:08:52pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

positive thoughts, vibes and prayers for Dennis

may his S/O RIP

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Poster: jerlouvis Date: June 26, 2012 08:23:23pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: Take a Load Off Dennis, Take a Load for Free

Dennis, I hope you can find find some peace and comfort in these most difficult of times.

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